Family Togetherness
Once upon a time, families enjoyed being together. The only millennium bug of significance this year (to me, anyway) was the flu bug. I was very sick for a long period of time. I tell you this not for sympathy, but to explain this article.
When I was finally able to at least sit up, I watched television. It's been a long time since I've seen so much television. I found myself watching a lot of very old shows. Watching those shows really got me thinking about our families and what has happened to them. Once upon a time, families enjoyed being together. They would listen to the radio together, or gather together for music or games. Meals were special occasions, with everyone helping. Families worked together, and they played together.
When a child misbehaved, as punishment they were told, "go to your room". What a joke that is now. Kids go into their rooms with their own televisions, computers and electronic toys, and consider it torture if they have to come out and be with the family. What a shame. However, we don't have to be that way. We don't follow the world when it comes to handling money. and we don't have to follow the world when it comes to family togetherness.
I believe the key is to start early. Your children are not going to start enjoying being with you when they are older if they have not done it from a young age. Doing things with your children does not have to cost a lot of money. You can do things that are both meaningful and within your budget. I would suggest that every parent spend 30 minutes each night with their children reading to them. Read a wide variety of material. If you are religious, strengthen them with stories of faith.
When there is good family entertainment on the television, watch it with them. Yes, I'm sure that there are other things you would find more entertaining, and it is a sacrifice. Be willing to make it. Help your children to learn to appreciate the simple pleasures in life and they won't become the spoiled kids begging for every new toy on the market.
Let them learn to enjoy stores, fresh cookies hot from the oven, and sitting on dad's lap while he tells them a story. Pull together as a family, and your children will be more respectful to your needs. They will turn off lights, brush their teeth to avoid cavities, take it easier on their clothes, accept hand me downs more readily, etc. I know that it is another challenge to take the road not taken by most people, but it brings great blessings into your life. Enjoy your children while they are with you. Blink your eyes, and they are out the door.
Frugal Living - Family Togetherness
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