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Minggu, 26 Agustus 2012

holding pattern

Things are brewing here--and I'm not talking about coffee.  We've got one week left of summer break and then everything changes.

It's weird to sit in this holding pattern, but there you have it.  No sense in starting new projects or routines when things are about to change.   We killed some time at a water park in the Dells. The boys are mad for this giant wave pool and we're all tall enough to go on the roller coasters and go-carts now.  Plus, people watching at a Wisconsin water park is pretty entertaining.  The thing that struck me most last week was how less than 20% of the population had any discernible muscle tone.  I'm not talking about people's weight, I'm talking about the pure flabbiness of so many arms and legs, on bodies large and small.  It got me thinking that people's diet habits are less of an issue than their lack of exercise.  You'll find great amounts of evidence of our sedentary society at a water park.

Mr. D and I went to a lovely wedding reception and visited with old friends.  We even cut a rug on the dance floor because we're too damn old to care what the young kids think and we're too young to remain seated at the tables sipping decaf.  The decorations were inspired and earthy, including these wonderful coasters made out of cut tree branches.  That had to be the best party favor I've ever scored at a wedding.  And we also heard the best maid of honor speech ever, the bride's twin sister delivered a hilarious and brilliant toast with magnificent comic timing and an accent so broad you could have mistaken her for a Yooper.  No kidding.

I've cleaned out a closet or two, organized years 1994-1999 in the photo albums and picked a pile of tomatoes and a peck of peppers (unpickled).   I've read 3 books and started a 4th.  I'm refereeing fights between bored brothers and flat out of patience with their lack of imagination.  It's an antsy feeling, knowing the bigger things I'd like to be doing but waiting until school starts.  Spill it, reader.  Anyone else get the jitters during the final weeks of summer vacation?


Rabu, 26 Agustus 2009

fish tales and waxing nostalgic

It's true what they say, you give a man a fish, he eats for a day. You teach your kids to bait their own hooks, cast their own lines and take off their own fish and you get peace and quiet to enjoy your book and beer.

Team Testosterone were slaying the itty bitty blue gills and sunfish yesterday--thrilled to no end to get a bite and we happily relinquished the aforementioned fishing tasks to them. It takes patience to teach a kid how to impale a worm on a hook, but Mr. T and Mr. B have now mastered the art. We didn't catch supper, however. Maybe tonight.

I taught Mr. T how to row a boat, too. While we cruised along the shoreline I thought of vacations long ago when I was slightly older than Mr. T is now. My family used to take vacations with another family--we knew them my entire life. We did everything together from county fairs to Great America to the Milwaukee Zoo (a shout out to Sampson! May he rest in peace!) to renting lake houses. Their oldest son was 8 days older than me and I'd known him since we were in diapers. He was the original Mr. B. Anyway, between us we had 3 younger siblings so when our parents rented a cottage on a lake, Mr. B and I would get in the rowboat and row to the middle of the lake and cast anchor. We'd then spend hours alone in that rowboat playing UNO. It was the perfect escape from annoying little siblings and I remember all the laughing and joking that took place years ago in the middle of that lake.

Mr. B was tall, thin and blonde. He followed in his father's footsteps after college and went into the family business. He married and inherited stepsons and had his own children shortly before he got very ill and died at the hospital--mistreated and misdiagnosed. He was 28. It kind of shook me and driving home after his funeral I vowed if I had another son I'd name him for Mr. B--to carry on his memory. There's a West African saying that goes along these lines: as long as a person's name is in use, their spirit remains alive. I was glad to do so for Mr. B--and my Mr. B is so far tall, thin and blonde and has as true a character and sense of humor as his predecessor ever did. Our rowboat ride last night really triggered my memories of our friends and the vacations we shared during my childhood.